"I couldn’t remember.
Why couldn't I remember?"
A few seconds earlier, I had been stepping into the shower.
My foot slipped as I lifted my leg over the side of the tub, and before I really knew what had happened, I was sitting in the bottom of it.
My husband came rushing in, reached over, and shut the water off.
“You okay?”
“I’m fine,” I said.
I was more embarrassed than anything.
He stood there looking down at me for a second, then looked at the bathtub.
“When’s the last time either of us actually used this thing as a bathtub?”
“I don’t know,” I said. I tried to think.
“I can’t remember.”
Last year? Definitely not.
Five years ago?
Honestly, it might have been more than a decade.
I looked around at the old beige tub I was still sitting in.
“Maybe we just don’t need one at all.”
He nodded.
“That’s kind of what I’m thinking.”

Nothing dramatic had happened.
I didn’t black out. I didn’t hurt myself. I didn’t need an ambulance.
I had just lost my footing trying to get into the shower.
Maybe I’d have a bruise the next morning, but that was about it.
Still, sitting there changed something.
I'd stepped over that bathtub wall thousands of times.
It had never felt particularly difficult.
You lift your leg, step over, and get in the shower. You don’t really think about it.
Until one day you’re sitting in the bottom of the tub wondering why you’re climbing over the side of it every morning when you haven’t actually taken a bath in years.
My husband helped me up.
We dried off the floor and went about our day.
But the conversation stuck with me.
We’d talked about remodeling the bathroom before.
Everybody does, I think.
You look at the old tub, the fixtures you picked years ago and say, “Someday we should redo this.”
Then something else comes up.
The roof needs work. The car needs tires. The grandkids visit.
Another year goes by.
There was also a part of me that didn’t want an “accessible bathroom.”
I know how that sounds.
But when I pictured grab bars and a low-entry shower, I pictured something that looked like a hospital.
I wasn’t looking to turn our bathroom into a medical facility.
I just wanted something nicer.

After my little fall, though, I started looking at the bathroom differently.
The side of the tub suddenly looked higher than I remembered.
There really wasn’t anything good to grab onto if one of us lost our balance.
And once I started thinking about it, I realized my husband wasn’t exactly getting younger either.
Neither of us said anything dramatic like, “We need to do this before somebody gets seriously hurt.”
We didn’t have to.
The thought was already there.
So we finally started looking into replacing the tub with a shower.
We talked with a couple of contractors.
They were fine. Nothing really stuck out to us.
One wanted to completely redo the bathroom. Another seemed more interested in telling us what we needed instead of asking.
Then our friend Linda told us to call this local company.
She and her husband had looked into some bathroom work themselves and had heard good things about them.
So I called.
The owner came out to the house and looked at everything with us.
I liked him pretty quickly because he was a straight talker.
There wasn’t a big presentation.
There wasn’t that feeling where somebody is sitting at your kitchen table trying to figure out how much money they can get you to spend.
We showed him the tub.
I told him about my fall.
Then I told him the other thing that had been bothering me.
“I don’t want it to look like an old person’s shower.”
He laughed. “I hear that a lot.”
Then he started showing us what we could actually do.
A lower entry.
Grab handles placed where they were actually useful.
A comfortable seat if we wanted one.
A handheld showerhead.
Different wall styles and finishes.
And the part that surprised me was that it could still look like a really nice bathroom.
Not clinical.
Not institutional.
Just a beautiful shower that happened to be easier and safer to use.

My husband is a veteran, so at one point I asked whether that made any difference.
“I do an additional 10% off for veterans,” he told us.
He also explained that while his company wasn’t associated with the VA, he could itemize everything clearly for us if we wanted to explore whether any assistance might apply.
We knew they probably weren’t going to pay for the whole project.
But every little bit helps.
What I appreciated was that he didn’t make promises he couldn’t keep.
He just explained what he could do and let us decide.
When we agreed to move forward, I expected the usual contractor headaches.
That turned out to be another thing I had worried about for no reason.
They measured everything.
And I mean everything.
The bathroom.
The doorways.
The path through the house.
Anything that could matter when it came time to bring materials in and get the old tub out.
They were careful with the house and respectful of our space.
That mattered to me.
You hear enough renovation horror stories that you start imagining dust everywhere, workers coming and going for weeks, and your bathroom torn apart indefinitely.
That wasn’t our experience.
And when the new shower was finally finished, both of us just stood there looking at it.
The bathroom looked completely different.
Cleaner.
Brighter.
More modern.
But the biggest surprise came the next morning.
I stepped into the shower.
That was it.
I stepped in.
No lifting my leg over the side of the tub.
No reaching for the wall.
No thinking about where I was putting my foot.

I hadn’t realized how much effort I was putting into something I did every single day until I didn’t have to do it anymore.
It felt like such a small change when we were talking about it.
In reality, it was probably my favorite part of the entire renovation.
My daughter loved it too.
When she came over and saw the bathroom for the first time, she stood in the doorway and said, “Thank God you finally got rid of that beige tub.”
Then she looked at me and laughed.
“Seriously, Mom. When was the last time you even took a bath?”
There was that question again.
“I have no idea.”
And this time I didn’t feel bad about not remembering.
Because that old bathtub had been taking up half our bathroom for years while doing absolutely nothing for us.
We were climbing over it every morning simply because it had always been there.
I’m grateful my fall was nothing more than an embarrassing little scare.
But in a strange way, I’m also glad it happened.
It finally pushed us to fix something we’d been putting off for years.
And now, every morning when I walk into our bathroom, I wonder why we waited so long.
I thought we were replacing an old bathtub we never used.
What we actually got was a bathroom that feels better to use every single day.
And I don’t miss climbing over that tub one bit.
Still stepping over a bathtub you rarely use?
If your bathtub is mostly being used as a step-over shower, it may be time to make the space work better for you.
Coastal Bath Remodel installs low-entry showers that can include grab bars, seating, handheld showerheads, and other accessibility features without making your bathroom feel clinical.
We’ll walk you through the options, help you choose a style that fits your home, and make the process simple from start to finish.
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